We can't stand them, they can't stand us. We all hae them, but what if I told you, you needed them. You would probably look at me as if I were crazy. I'm not crazy, and your haters may be your ticket to eat. How? you ask?
“You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies;
you anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.”
In order for you to be blessed in some situations your haters have to be present, it's just part of the promise. So don't get upset when they test your whits, it is all part of the process. Trust the process.